Reddington Beach

OK... this place was super "Beach vacation" ish.
I big hit for the whole family.  Beaches - check, 7-11 for slurpies - check, crazy boardwalk with lots of beach stores with beach sundries - check.  oh... and alligators.

Sage loves the ocean.  so.very.much.

John's Boardwalk

a little reality

Last night was hard for Curt.  He was moved to a different room last night (out of ICU - hoot) but ended up getting really confused and scared in the middle of the night.  He managed to call a neighbor here (probably dials their number more than his own- so it was the one that came to him)  looking for Carol.  The neighbor called us and I woke and answered.  Chris went up right away just to hang out with him and hold his hand.  He was having some delusions.

Carol just went back up to the hospital - but thankfully she was able to sleep through the night.

Yesterday, I went to water aerobics with her and it was so bittersweet to see all of her girlfriends in the village checking in on her and what not.  You could see the look behind all of their eyes - "I might be next",  the next one to lose a husband.  It's a fact, women live longer than men and it is pretty clear here in a retirement village.  I have never been interested in living in one of these compounds... BUT being here in this last week it is so clear to me that they have a huge advantage in rallying and dealing with these end of life things.  People are over all the time and calling and checking in with Chris and I to see what is needed or will be needed when we are gone.  They are good at knowing what needs to be done.  I'm not saying I ever want to live in one - but I sure am glad they are living in one.  Community.


A picture from when Sage was 3 months old:

Connor blogs

Picture of Connor and Finn making "phone calls" at the swanky Sheraton lobby (hotel thanks to Uncle Curt)



When I went to the hospital with dad to visit grampa and we were all talking and saying how we went to the beach and how cool it is that its warm and the water is luke warm. Then she started talking about how she would go to a nice beach like the one we were planning to go to only its less crowded and its 30-45 minutes closer. She said that there was also this place called john"s crossing and at john's crossing kids get to feed alligators and there's all sorts of shops, candy shops and ice cream shops. I hope to go there with my mom and dad.

Howard Beach

Howard Beach.  Tarpon Springs.

Ok... Tarpon Springs is a very sweet little beach town.  I usually am not very kind about the gulf / Northern bit of Florida... we haven't found a lot to do here that is beachy.  I guess we just needed to talk to some nurses and get the skinny on where to go.  We have 2 other beaches to check out as well.  This was a nice drive (took about 45 minutes and was pleasant) and once we got there - OHMIGOSH _ MOM...MOM!  you can RENT CANOES!!!!!!!

so 30 bucks later (I thought that was reasonable for renting 2 of them for the afternoon) I had 2 very happy older boys.  Sage was jumping and clapping as soon as we got out of the car and he saw the Gulf.  He had an "are you kidding me???" look on his face.  He ran straight into the Gulf and started kicking it around and splashing the 3 of us.

Howard beach is a little peninsula that sticks out and you take a land bridge to get out and park.  On either side of the parking is a beach that is Gulf.  On one side there are Canoes, paddle boats and ... seems like I am forgetting something to rent.  On the other side is just swimming.  There are food trucks and lots of pale people - or burnt people.  It is March.  The swimming side was MUCH colder and rougher - weird.  So Sage and I just waded by where Connor and Finny were paddling.  With Sage randomly yelling to them "innnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!  onnnnnnnnnn!!!!"  He was much happier when they were close.

The rental dude let us grab a kid life jacket and Sage got to sit in the boat with Connor with me right by and - woah... heaven.